My Story
Hi my loves! I am Tiffany Nichole Laibhen-Spence, a spiritual being (living this human experience on purpose), a creative, a wife, a mom, a daughter, the oldest of 3 siblings, a friend, + a confidant to many.
I’ve spent a good portion of my life living as an introvert + super sensitive being who tried to be everything but introverted + sensitive. let’s just say, that led to a life of running from myself, only to spend the last 10+ years trying to get back to me.
In that time, I’ve done things I didn’t want to do, + presented as a person that I didn’t want to be, all because I forgot who I was. I experienced debilitating anxiety + tiptoed on the fine line of depression on many occasions. I committed to careers + people that were completely out of alignment, even when, from the outside, it all looked like I had it together. Until I got sick + tired, of being sick + tired.
I stopped running, or should I say God stopped me… and I was forced to go inward + learn to love me the way I was created to exist.
Becoming a mother was one of the biggest pivots in that journey. it completely revamped my schedule, my routines, my sense of self. I had to learn to communicate with my husband in a whole new way just to carve out time for me again — time to think, to feel like myself, even just time to get dressed with intention. I realized quickly that what I put on my body + how I structured my days weren't small things — they were part of how I stayed connected to myself in a season that could've easily swallowed me whole.
Now, I’m dedicated to helping those who desire it, to find their way off the hamster wheel, + onto the path that is laid out uniquely for them… the path of self-actualization. What I pray people walk away with is the courage to lean deeper + deeper into who they truly are… into what lights them up.. into their power + intuition… + into the incredible force that’s always guiding us, whatever we may individually choose to call it.
My Constants
I’m married to my college sweetheart, Kevin Spence. We’ve been together 18 years, married for 8. and we have 2 beautiful children: our son, Ever (5) + our daughter, Zendaya (1). These people are my entire world!
I’m no good without my daily meditation + warm cup of tea. I’m deeply reliant on the creator + this universe in guiding my next steps. I’d be a lost cause without it.
I’m super silly… love to laugh! I love love lovvvve 90s R&B… love spicy food… Oh + if you can’t tell, I lovveee fashion + creative expression.
My Why
I believe that we are here to love this life… + for most of us, to always find our way back to loving this life. To acknowledge parts of our personalities that are innate, the parts we can’t run away from… + to align it with our purpose… to the things that light us up.
That journey back to myself is exactly why I created The U Edit — because I know what it feels like to live out of alignment, and I know what it takes to find your way back. If you're standing where I once stood, I'd be honored to help
If any of this resonates, let's talk about what's next for you.

